Why Raw Emotions Come To The Surface

By John Green


Some people have less trouble controlling their emotions. It may be difficult to control raw emotions, such as anger, jealousy, anxiety or less love and more bitterness. Unfortunately, these types of emotions are part of one's life and they can come up any point in life. It can make you feel overwhelmed, and you need to be able to deal with this.

Most of the time, this is not just a passing phase as most people think. It is a time which can be very challenging. It needs to be dealt with as soon as you feel that you are not coping on a daily basis. Preferably, you need to take note of these emotions before you reach the point of crisis. It is then when you need to look for someone to talk to.

It can be refreshing to talk to a psychologist or a counsellor. You need to feel that you are in a safe space and the there is a sense of trust that you feel towards the person you are talking to. This will lead to a unique and solid relationship. This connection is said to be the most important thing, which even comes before the experience and qualifications of the therapist.

It is particularly for a child or teen to have to deal with this on their own. They will have stressful feelings that they are suffering from in the home environment as well as at school. A child may become moody, withdrawn, angry or avoidant. The worst thing that a parent can do is to simply think this is a stage that they are going through. Often, it is a lot more than this.

These types of emotions are not particularly a bad thing. Of course, they are challenging, but they are also something that help you deal with other issues in your life. Sometimes, you will be feeling some depression or anxiety set off by a trigger. You will have a memory of something unpleasant that happened in your childhood.

A person with borderline personality disorder will also find that emotions like these will take over their life and cause them many problems in their work performance and in their personal relationships. Most of the time, this will relate in the way in which they relate and react to people.

The emotions will come to the surface for a number of different reasons. This is what you have to discover more about. It can be stress or a past issue that you have suffered from in your childhood. It can also be a psychological issue. Some people just battle in the way in which they express themselves. Communication is the number one reason why people decide to opt out of a relationship.

This can include talk therapy, but there are also other specific therapies for the disorder that you are suffering from. For example, someone with borderline personality disorder will be best off with DBT therapy. This has been specifically designed for someone like this. Temporary group programs can be useful for something like grief and rage, for example. It is a good way to identify and connect with other folk.




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