How To Get Past Raw Emotions

By Jose Roberts


It is not always that you want to express your emotions so that they are raw. You can't walk around being completely open all the time. You have to be in the right place to be vulnerable, with the right people. However, it is important to have raw emotions and to speak from the heart. This is not only going to help you, but it will help others as well.

Bottling things up and keeping your emotions hidden away is not healthy. You may even suffer in a physical way because often it leads to psychosomatic symptoms. People show these emotions when they become vulnerable and tell people more about their life. It helps other people to become inspired and look at their own life from another perspective.

Obviously the patient needs to express him or herself in order for the psychologist to get to know them. A connection needs to be established. This will lead to a trusting relationship which makes it easier for the client to experess themselves. It can take more time for a client to talk about themselves when they have not made the connection.

Your relationships begin to improve as you begin to express yourself. Very often, people don't know what you are feeling inside. When you finally do become angry and say what is on your mind, you will discover that you loved one would not have known what has been going through your mind.

Many people allow things like anger, jealousy and rage to take over their lives. It is not something that they want in their lives. Often, they will start the day on a relaxed note. However, this always seems to go haywire when something small happens. It can be a little road rage and your emotions will get out of control. You will already have started the day in a bad way.

To combat these feeling, it is a good idea to be aware of what you are going through. You need to recognize every time you are being angry with yourself or with those around you. There are specific techniques which can help reduce the anxiety. People engage in mindfulness and meditation. This takes time to get used to the process. It is not instant, but you will find that it pays off.

Learning specific breathing exercises are a bit like meditation as well. It helps you to keep you in the present moment. You will only focus on your breathing and nothing else. People who react quickly will benefit from this. There are also techniques to help them cope in these instances. It can especially be helpful for borderline patients who tend to react. DBT therapy can be helpful for this.

A person should also try and develop a certain amount of empathy which obviously takes time, but it can be useful for the parson who has anger issues. This will also improve relationships. They will begin to ask themselves more about their loved one and how they are struggling as well.




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